Kevin Burke

In loving memory of a man whose life touched so many: a wonderful husband and father, a cornerstone for his family, a true friend, and a kind presence to countless strangers.

Memorial Wake

A quiet moment to gather and remember Kevin
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Thursday, 2/1, 5-7pm

📍 Graham Funeral Home

Memorial Service

A heartfelt tribute to a beloved family man and friend

Friday, 2/2, 1pm
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📍 Rye Presbyterian Church

Celebration of Life

A joyful gathering to celebrate Kevin, as he would have wished

Friday, 2/2, 2pm

📍 The Apawamis Club

Notes:
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^{*In lieu of flowers or gifts, please brighten a stranger’s day with a kind gesture in memory of Kevin’s lifelong generosity.
*For anyone traveling to the Memorial Service, a recommended hotel is the Courtyard by Marriott in Rye @ 631 Midland Ave.
*Incredibly grateful for 👉}^{all these small tributes to Kevin from loan market friends.}

Obituary

Kevin Francis Burke, 69, of Rye, NY, passed away peacefully, surrounded by his loving wife and children, on January 13th, after a courageous battle with pancreatic cancer.

Born in Boston, MA, Kevin was the oldest of seven children born to Charles and Ellen (Kelley) Burke. Growing up in Newton, MA, he spent his winters playing hockey and his summers on the beach in Scituate, MA, traditions he lovingly passed on to his children.

Kevin's educational journey included St. Sebastian’s, Phillips Academy Andover, and Harvard, where his time was marked by academic and athletic success, lifelong friendships, and a playful mischievous streak (always in good fun). At Harvard, he was a dedicated member of the Owl Club and excelled on a hockey team that achieved Ivy Championships, a Beanpot title, and Frozen Four appearances. His parents were a constant presence at every game. During his college years, Kevin worked hard, cleaning offices at night to support his education, a testament to his work ethic and determination. Later in life, Kevin watched with pride as his sons, Ryan and Kevin Jr. (Khaki), followed in his footsteps at his alma maters.

After college, Kevin moved to New York and joined Bankers Trust, where he met the love of his life, Mimi Hazen. His quick wit and contagious laugh quickly won Mimi’s heart. After 25 years with Bankers Trust/Deutsche Bank, he joined GE Capital/Antares where he built a market-leading franchise in the syndicated loan market and, more importantly, a team that he considered a second family. Kevin had a lasting impact on everyone with whom he crossed paths. His warmth and ability to connect with others extended from his team, to the building staff, to people like Vincent who sold him his daily New York Post for the train ride home. Recently, after a chemo treatment, Kevin went out of his way to find Vincent, just to hand him one last Christmas gift. Kevin also helped innumerable people get jobs and advance their careers, always offering to review a resume or make an introduction.
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The most important and impactful role of Kevin’s life was as a husband, father, and grandfather. In 1983, Kevin married Mimi in Rye, where they subsequently moved and started their family. They raised four wonderful children, Ryan, Khaki, Kelley, and Courtney. Despite his demanding career, Kevin was an extremely hands-on dad. He made time to coach all of his kids’ Rye Rangers hockey teams, necessitating weekend road trips to just about every hockey rink in the Northeast. He instilled valuable lessons in his children. Anyone who entered the Burke house knew the significance of “Eat Breakfast, Go To X-Period, Play Hurt, No Drama,” which he wrote on paper in permanent marker and Mimi framed and hung over the back door.

Kevin was an active grandfather for his six grandchildren, all living in Rye. To their delight, he was quick to sneak them a milkshake, dig them a massive hole on the beach, or make them laugh uncontrollably by pretending to be a bear (or a gruffalo) as he clawed on the opposite side of their door before bedtime.
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A member of The Apawamis Club in Rye, Loblolly in Hobe Sound, FL, and the U.S. Seniors' Golf Association, Kevin cherished his time on the golf course. He joked to his family about winning "56 majors," including a recent victory after his cancer diagnosis. Kevin’s four holes-in-one are memorable not only for his athletic achievement, but also for how many people enjoyed celebrating with him each time. His philanthropic spirit was evident at Loblolly, where he served on the Grants Committee and with Friends at Loblolly, both dedicated to aiding those in need in Hobe Sound.
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Kevin was authentic, caring, and sincere. He was quick to make connections, give thoughtful advice, or do whatever he could to help others. It was a great day for his children and many others when he discovered Venmo. He loved Motown and Barry White. His favorite restaurants included Tandoori, Kelly’s, and Coyote Flaco, although every meal Mimi cooked was, of course, “the best I’ve ever had.” He patted all dogs he encountered and was often known to have a treat on him “just in case.”
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In addition to his loving wife, Mimi, and loyal pup, Henry, Kevin is survived by his children: Ryan, Kevin Jr. (Alix), Kelley (Michael Baine), Courtney (Jake Roth); his six grandchildren: Ethan, Riley, Nate, Caroline, Gavin, and Griffin; his father and stepmother, Charles and Claire Burke; his siblings: Charles III (Kathy), Brian (Lisa), Greg, Ted (Sharon), Terry, and Tim (Joy); and his many beloved nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his mother Ellen, with whom he is now joyfully reunited (and Trooper and Rex, too).
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The memorial wake for Kevin will take place at Graham Funeral Home, Thursday, Feb 1, 5-7pm, and the memorial service at Rye Presbyterian Church, Friday, Feb 2, 1pm. In lieu of flowers or gifts, please brighten a stranger’s day with a kind gesture in memory of Kevin’s lifelong generosity.

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Met Kevin my first day at Bankers Trust in 1976, and he said that he had figured out the training program and he said he would watch out for me. Kevin making a 12 foot putt on 18th hole at Johns Island member-guest last spring to win our match and flight. He loved 🥰 pressure!!! He was a remarkable friend, Husband and Dad. He made my life better.

Jamie McAndrews

Kevin was simply the best! Although we only met after we joined Loblolly we quickly became good friends (not hard to do with Kevin!). He had a wit that we all wished we had. Never laughed so hard as when I was with him. Always fun, rarely a dull moment when Kevin was around. He was a true joy to be with. I loved the way he cherished his family and how he took life only as seriously as it needed to be taken. One of my favorite memories (not even a year ago) was partnering up with Kevin in the US Seniors event at Streamsong (we were 6th out of 50 FYI and both happy with that result). We had non-stop chit chat on the way there, on the course, at dinner, and on the way back. Nobody could engage people like Kevin! I'll miss you more than you know big guy. We all will. Gary

Gary and Linda Stephans

Dearest Mimi , Ryan, Khaki and Alex, Kelley and Mike, Courtney and Jake: We send you all of you our deepest sympathy, endless prayers and a big huge hug to you and your wonderful grandchildren. Kevin will always be in your hearts, your minds, your souls and your actions forever and ever. The legacy that he has left behind is quite extraordinary. He has truly made such an impact on your lives as a husband, father and grandfather as well as so many people in his lifetime. May his many memories bring you great comfort as you tell stories, repeat his favorite mantras, enjoy his favorite activities…. This is how he will be with you always. His approach to life is truly inspiring . He reminds us all of what is truly most important … family, friends, always being your personal best, and by his actions …. Always be kind to all who you encounter . We wanted to let you know we are thinking of you all during this most difficult time . Xoxo Donna McElwee On behalf of The McElwee Family Donna and Scott, Blake and Peggy, Scotty and Ali .

The McElwee Family

One of the true good guys in a profession where being a good human was not high on the list of priorities you were given to succeed. Made me feel so very welcome on my arrival at GE. Avuncular, talented, a good person. I smiled when I saw the family photos of him and shed a tear for those he left behind. They should be glad they had him in their lives. God bless you, Kevin.

Howard Sharp

Dear Burke family We were so very saddened to hear about the passing of kevin and we send our hearfelt condolences to you all. I have very fond memories of kevin while playing hockey with him for the rye men's team. He was so enjoyable to be around with his engaging personality and infectious laugh. He lived a charmed life and charmed many lives. Most of all he balanced family, play and work very well. He was a great man who left us much too early. Wishing you strength during this most difficult time. Elaine and Brian Hanson

elaine and brian hanson

What a ride being a friend of Kevin Burke. Not a better gentleman or kinder heart to be found. His wicked sense of humor put him at the top of the list. Dead-pan he could pull-off just about any crazy thought or story. I remember a round at loblolly. I was all over the map, left, right and a real test. So, on the 18th hole I of course yank one left into the forest. I was happy to say “just let it go, it never did anything good for me”. Kevin, being ever the one careful with a buck said, “no, I’m sure I can find it”. After a deep walk in the woods I hear “hey, I found your ball…it’s got your name on it”. He had the biggest smile on his face as he showed me my name “DUMMY”. I had given him many chances to find my ball, but of course he wanted the drama of the 18th hole. Man he had a good laugh (so, did I). I’ll have to remember this laugh, as there will be a few less to go around. I really wish the ride were a bit longer.

Bob Amato

To all the Burke’s Peter and I are just so gutted for you all and your extended family. Kevin was undoubtably the most giving and kind man, as well as the best husband and father/ grandfather that all could see. When he spoke of Mimi it was like they were newlyweds,….when he spoke of his children his pride burst forth. His grandchildren were considered works of art that made his life complete. He would talk about you all with the biggest smile that spread clear across his face with love. Several years ago, Peter held a company party at a bar with a mechanical bull. Kevin happened to be walking by the bar en route to the train station on a snowy night and recognized us inside. He immediately came in and we begged for him to stay. Of course you know what he said immediately, “oh God Mimi will kill me if I am late, but I am DYING to see if I can stay on that frightening looking bull for longer than all these young kid’s in your office Peter! We cannot let them show us older guys they can beat us!” On Kevin’s first attempt, off he was thrown into the hay pile….” Oh dear! After that he promptly went to the bar and got a second drink, (which I wont say he downed quite quickly!), all the while keeping his train departure time “top of mind”, he climbed on that bull again in his beautiful new suit (again we hear “oh Mimi is going to kill me!”) and rode that Bull until the deadly beast died down in pure exhaustion! Huge clapping by all was had as Kevin then flew off to make his train (which he kindly told us he did as we too didn’t want Mimi upset with us). He was so loved by all. Keep your eyes open for that bright star known as Kevin Burke xxx Martha and Peter Webster

Martha and Peter Webster

Nobody loved Christmas more than Kevin! He actually loved giving gifts more than receiving them. I remember the Christmas he bought Mimi a Suburban. They were in great demand and Mimi had wanted one for so long. Kevin bought the shiny new green Suburban and hid it in our garage across the street at our house on Grandview. I swear he visited it every day. Christmas morning he was over at the crack of dawn to pick up the car and position it in the driveway to surprise Mimi. He completely pulled off the surprise and was thrilled. I will always remember his ready smile, positivity about everything, and of course, his beautiful Boston accent which always made me feel at home. He was a wonderful man, husband, father, son and friend. He will be sorely missed. Much love to you all, Nancy

Nancy Rees

Here’s to one of the great gentlemen of all time. Kevin was one of those people you were ALWAYS happy to be with, always with a smile on his face. The whole Rees family feels this loss, he was a friend and mentor to all generations. God Bless him, and all of your family. We were lucky to have had him in our lives. With gratitude for Kevin, Mason

Mason Rees

KB was just a great guy to be around. I did business with Kevin for almost thirty years. Dealing with Kevin was like dealing with a friend. He had a great wit and very dry sense of humor. We had a lot of great times on the golf course. I am sure he is already in charge of a new weekly game. See you on the other side KB Best Coop

Greg Cooper

On behalf of all The Sheresky’s just want to say how terribly Kevin will be missed. I’ve known him since college but the memory I will never forget is when he was Lucy’s hockey coach. One day they had a game in New Jersey and can’t remember why, but Lucy and Kevin rode alone to the game. Lucy, who wasn’t always so easy at that age, said it was the best day of her life at that point. “Coach Burke sang songs the entire car ride…we both laughed so hard”. The game didn’t matter, it was all about the fun with Kevin. Thinking of you all.

Tapley Sheresky

From the days when "we " played hockey together in Needham Ma through our time in Rye,kevin was always a good friend. Your family was always so good to us. Khaki and Jake good friends . Our family knows what a loss he will be to everyone he touched. I will remmember Kevin fondly

Dan Murphy

I can't remember if I first met Kevin in Granville or Rye, but I do remember instantly understanding where some of Kelley's best qualities came from. Rooming with Kelley for four years at Denison, I heard countless stories that illustrated what a wonderful father Kevin was. His warmth, welcoming nature, fun-loving spirit, and generosity made you feel like family – something that I so valued when the Burkes would come to visit. On trips to Rye when we would venture into the city, I fondly remember Kevin picking us up from the train station with a huge smile and Trooper, and later Henry, riding shotgun. One distinct memory is of a brutally long and understaffed dinner at the Granville Inn during our graduation weekend. Kevin kept the atmosphere light with his cloth napkin origami, crafting hats we wore throughout the meal. This dinner was followed by a rousing game of Thumper at our apartment, with Kevin and Mimi participating enthusiastically. Kevin was a man of strong values, leaving a legacy that will last through generations. His memory will live on, a testament to the profound impact he made on those in his life.

Paige Skuse Wacienga

On behalf of the Moher Family, Artie, Hilary, Melissa, and I, our thoughts and our prayers are with Kevin, Mimi, Ryan, Kevin Jr., Kelley, and Courtney along with Terry, Chip, Brian, Greg, Ted, and Tim and their dad, Charlie and his wife Claire and their wonderful mother Ellen Burke. Through my friendship with Brian as classmates and teammates at Andover and The University of Notre Dame, I have been priveged to get to know Kevin and the entire Burke family quite well. The memories are wonderful and there are so many. The friendships that the Moher's and the Burke's have shared over these many years have truly stood the test of time and for that I will always be very grateful and most appreciative. As we all know, Kevin was an outstanding human being throughout his entire life, the leader of the pack and a true CHAMPION in every way. I encourage everyone to hold on tight to all of the wonderful memories that they have been blessed to have shared with Kevin and all of the Burke's because they truly will last a lifetime. May God bless Kevin and all of the Burke's now and always. FAITH FAMILY FRIENDS. Len

Len Moher

In the brief moments I was lucky enough to share with Kevin - mostly heavy moments grieving the losses of mothers, aunts, and grandmothers - he was deeply supportive, generous, and lively. Most memorably, I came away inspired by the excitement he had for his growing family, his kids and grandkids, that he was clearly so central to in Rye. It's devastating news to hear, even as someone with such a tiny glimpse into Kevin and the family he built. I'm thinking of the loss for that growing family, and hoping you all can find your way together through these tough times.

John Klein

Upon loading into his newspaper-filled sedan in the parent pickup line, Mr Burke asked us eight year old girls one question: “Who won?!” This wasn’t after a Rye Youth Soccer match or a CYO Basketball game. This was after a Rye School of Dance class. Without fail, this made us chuckle. It’s a small, but notable memory for me (and several of "Kelbel"’s friends). Not many dads partook in the carpool responsibilities (and not many dads drove around with a fluffy companion dog hanging out the window). He was involved in our activities, caring, engaged, and curious. He knew there weren’t teams or points in the dance class, but he wanted to make things fun and make others smile, and perhaps encourage us to think that everything in life can be competitive and an opportunity to be our best. “Who won?!” and other great Kevin sayings and words to live by (“Eat your breakfast”, “Go to X period”, “Play hurt”) will stay with me and continue to inspire me, as Kevin did in my fifth grade Midland yearbook, where I declared that I wanted to grow up to be a banker. I wanted to be like him, athletic, funny, smart, and successful so that I could live in a nice brown house with lots of children and collect pretty deal toys and hundreds more beanie babies. I will miss his warmth, light nature, and quick “Claire Burke!” greetings, a name I proudly earned as Kelley’s friend who never left Grandview. He was a wonderful, hilarious, and supportive second dad to me.

Claire Byrne

So sorry to learn of Kevin’s passing. He was loads of fun, loved his family and was a truly decent man. Gone too soon. Peace and grace to his family.

Henry Mueller

I first knew Kevin when I joined his Sales Desk as his only junior analyst on a team of seasoned syndicators. Besides building a team of all-stars who have nearly all gone on to lead teams and businesses of their own, Kevin was an amazing leader and friend. I was barely 24 at the time and his willingness to share deep business insights and knowledge or just chat about the latest hockey gossip was unending. Particularly for someone twice my age with the weight that business on his shoulders, Kevin always had time for whoever came through his door. And Everyone was happy to talk to Kevin. Even if you had to deliver bad news or engage in heated discussions. He always handled himself with humor, professionalism and grace. Personally, he was a role model for how to be a man who commanded respect but also be kind and approachable. Children who came into our office loved Kevin. He went out of his way to play with and engage with them and uproarious laughter coming from his office was a common occurrence. Overall, Kevin was the kind of person we should all try to be. He treated everyone the same, from the men who served him coffee and a newspaper each morning, to a junior analyst, to the heads of major corporations. He was truthful, honest and didn’t need to put on airs to impress you. He stood firmly in his own skin and was proud of who he was and what he’d accomplished. He was also unendingly proud of his family and his children and would speak about them any chance he got. I’ll leave you with a simple story about something that I do every year solely because of Kevin. Each Christmas I would see in his office these enormous holiday baskets full of wine, meats, and cheeses. They weren’t for him and they weren’t for colleagues or our customers, which was commonplace at that time of year. No, they were for people that helped him in the little parts of his day. The dry cleaner, the coffee cart owner, the newspaper man. He went out of his way to make their lives better and he remembered them just like he did everyone he came across. Kevin was a bright light in this world and we were all better for having stood under it, but are saddened that it now must now only live in our memories. Warm Regards and Condolences, Kent Foster

Kent Foster

I will always remember Kevin's warmth and generosity as he faithfully ferried our daughter Julia (youngest of 4 with busy parents) to and from many youth hockey practices and games. I'm sure he tied many a skate, warmed fingers and toes, and made sure seatbelts were buckled on top of his many other tasks. His ever present smile says it all and we are grateful to have known him. Our hearts are with the extended Burke family.

Cecily Lynett

I am so shocked that i found out Mr. Burke was passed away. I was so lucky to have a privilege to work and serve to him.I happen to babysit his granddaughter too. He was big fan of golf and always trying to teach me which I was never understood. He was such a kind person and he was so good to me that’s why me and his wife dear Mimi became like family. His son became my friend. I wish God will bless his soul and give patience to his family. I will deeply missing you MR.Burke. Rest in peace.

Gizem Temuroglu

Kev or Uncle Kev as I knew him, was a special person. My first Four-Ball 10 years go, I was introduced into the entire Burke clan. From the start, I connected with Kevin. His humor, his wit, and just beneath that surface...an immense kindness. He made me feel part of the group immediately , and we only grew closer over the next 9 years of Kittansett trips. This most recent trip - CJ & I were able to take the trophy home not just for us but for all the Burkes. And Kevin was right there with us - literally. He happened to be on the second hole of his match which coincided with the 18th hole of our all square final match, via a shared tee box. In true Kevin form - he made a joke. One that CJ and I cracked up at as we always did. Our playing partners though - in a flurried state missed the joke, likely only making them tighter - and threw away the 18th hole to get us to the flight playoff. CJ and I talked about Uncle Kevs joke after the match and the rest of that weekend - and we will continue to. As a part of our Burke win. Its hard to imagine a fourball weekend without him. And for the family, I am sure its even harder. My love and sympathy go out to his family. I will never forget Kevin.

Nick Hellmuth

Knew Kevin for one year @ PA, and four @ Harvard.Could not have been a nicer guy. My thoughts and prayers to his family, to a life well lived. God bless!

Barry Cronin

What a loss we must bear. Feel so lucky to have shared some lighter moments with Kevin, Mimi, Rick McK. and others at reunion picnic. My heart breaks thinking of the chasm left in the lives of Mimi and all the family members. Rest in peace Kevin. We will carry on as best we can with you in our hearts.

Stanley Carson

In reading Kevin's heartwarming obituary, we were drawn to the line "he patted all dogs and was often known to have a treat on him just in case". We walk our dog Jackson past the Burke's home in Hidden Falls on a regular basis. Jackson's arrival is heralded by enthusiastic barking from Henry which cues Kevin to action! The door opens, Henry bolts out to greet his friend Jackson who mainly ignores him and heads straight to Kevin for a vigorous pat and a treat! In the fall when Kevin and Mimi head to Florida, we literally have to drag Jackson past their home as he looks longingly for Kevin, a pat, and a treat----and oh yeah Henry too. We will all miss you.....

Greg and Gail Fell

Over the course of 30+ years of knowing Mr. Burke, it's nearly impossible to whittle this down to one memory. But my favorite thing about him will forever be how he so visibly lives on through his children and grandchildren. He is so clearly the father of a wonderful family who takes after him in all the most special, loving and importantly kind ways. When I see Courtney, Kelley, Khaki, Ryan - I see the joy and spirit and levity of Mr. Burke. His smile, his heart, his light. Reading how Mr. Burke charmed Mimi with his humor and kindness reminds me of how Courtney has become my best friend; it's clearly her father (and of course beautiful mother) who mentored her to become the loyal, hardworking, generous, hilarious and supportive friend, peer, teammate, wife, mother she is. His legacy will absolutely live on forever through the qualities of his family - because he has taught them how to give and live in the most special of ways. That is irreversible, that is infinite, and that is one of his greatest gifts (in my eyes, anyways). So much love to all of the Burkes. You are all so extremely special to my life. Mr. Burke will always be one of the best coaches and fathers I'll ever have known. I feel so beyond honored to have known him, learned from him, and to have had him hold such significance in my life.

Mimi McCormick

Kevin was an unforgettable presence in the Andover Class of 1972. I watched more hockey during those years than at any time in my life, thrilling to the exploits of the 3 Bs who made us all proud. But Kevin's energy and presence extended far beyond the ice and while the years since I had seen him last had been way too many, one of my very fondest memories of our 50th reunion was the joyful and extended conversation I had with Kevin and his lovely Mimi at the first night's dinner. I offer my deepest condolences to Mimi and all the family. We were all better off for having had him in our life.

Bill Pruden

So so sorry to hear the news. I have so many fond memories of Kevin. He was always quick to make you feel comfortable and welcomed, then hit you with a well-intended zinger and a laugh. He's one of a kind! I heard many stories from him about how proud he is of his family and how devoted he is to Mimi. I never had anything but pleasantry over my 30 year relationship with Kevin. I am one of the many who will miss him, but not nearly as much as you.

Chris Jansen

Great friend and competitor. Always had a laugh somewhere in the midst of our conversations. When I think of Kevin, I think of many memories with his wonderful wife Mimi and how our families were growing at the same time. 44 years is a long journey together, and I will miss his smile, his humor and friendship greatly. My life is better because of shared experiences with KFB and I am grateful for that. God bless Mimi and the kids and grandkids and never forget Kevin’s loving spirit.

Kevin Hoffman

I first met Mimi and Kevin when they brought our house on Holly Lane. We were so happy to Sell our home to such a young couple who ended up having two girls and two boys just like our family. Then lo and behold we moved to Evergreen and the Burke family moved right behind our house to Grandview. Kevin always had a smile showing off his beautiful pearly white teeth. Always a kind word and positive thing to say. He will be missed by all who knew him. Sending love and prayers to Mimi And all of Kevin’s family. God bless you all Trish and Mark

Trish Mulvoy

I have known Kevin for 50 years, the first 40 of which as my big brother Steve’s best friend…Burkie. In the last 10+ years, my wife Kathy and I have had the pleasure of spending lots more time with Kevin and Mimi at Loblolly in Florida. It is here we have come to know and love his humor, whit and zest for life…always up for anything…truly the Mayor of Loblolly…and universally loved. But it is the compassionate Kevin that I came to appreciate most, working with him on the Friends of Loblolly, a real boots on the ground group here that meets with and helps families in need. He couldn’t wait to volunteer, nor could he wait to go meet with the families…does tomorrow work? Twenty of his friends have been inspired by him and joined the group as well this year alone! My father used to say he thought I was going to be a priest or a politician some day…I would say the same of Burkie. It’s hard to imagine life without him, but we will all soldier on and never forget the impact he has had on all those who have been blessed to know him. A life well lived indeed my friend, rest in peace.

Brian Hines

So very saddened by the news of Kevin’s passing but extremely happy to have shared so much time with Kevin at Andover and Harvard. He was a very special guy and, along with his parents Charlie and Ellen made my very first stay away from home in Maine an extremely memorable event in my life. Few people know that at ages nine and 10 years old and living in two different states we both managed to be named the most valuable players in back to back National Pee Wee Hockey tournaments. Who knew then that the two of us would team up to play at Andover and Harvard. I will always remember all the great times spent with Kevin .

Danny and Jane Bolduc

Loblolly won't be the same without Kevin riding his bike for miles on end. If he wasn't stopping to talk, he was giving a smile and hello when he passed - even if you'd seen him a dozen times already (as was often the case when walking with my mother). His humor and kindness will be sorely missed. My love and condolences to the Burke family.

Jon Hopper

Kevin joined us at St Sebs a million years ago. We played on the same hockey team (as I did with Chip). He moved on to Andover and Harvard as I toiled for Henry Lane at Sebs and Snooks at BC. As with all good friends we stayed in touch through those years until we lost touch when he entered the demanding financial community of Bankers Trust and GE Capital. Recently through a mutual friend we reconnected. It was as if we hadn't missed a beat. Then the devastating news of his medical condition. But he was the same guy I had come to know. Strong, confident and determined. Nothing would deter his focus on getting well. Grief is the price we pay for love. And you'll know you are overcoming your sadness when you see something that reminds you of Kevin and a smile comes to your lips before a tear comes from your eye. I'm so glad I knew him.

Gleason Gallagher (St Sebs '71)

One of the best competitors and enjoyable people I have had the pleasure of knowing. Kevin and his Dad, Charles, played in the Apawamis member-guest many times and won a few times along the way. You did not want Kevin and his Dad in your flight as competitors but at the same time you didn't want to miss being with them because they were so much fun! I had great admiration for Kevin while serving with him on the Apawamis membership committee for ten years. He was a cornerstone of Apawamis membership. God Bless Kevin!

James M Dean

I first met Kevin (and Mimi) in the mid 1970's when we all worked together at Bankers Trust. I had first met Kevin, and I have not forgotten that Mimi turned heads whenever she walked into the room. I remember Kevin as so outgoing with tremendous interpersonal skills. He was taken from us too early as he still had more joy to distribute to others. In 2015 Sue and I applied for membership at Loblolly when Kevin was on the Membership Committee. He said he nearly fell of his chair when he recognized my name and thought it quite the small world story. Kevin and I were on the Grants Committee together at Loblolly, and count on Kevin to know the names of all the caddies and always lobby for the underdog and those in need. Kevin was special and he will be missed by me and many others. George Cady

George Cady

Dear Mimi and family, Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the passing of your beloved Kevin. Kevin and I were good friends at St. Sebastian’s. I have many fond memories of going to Kevin’s home on Park Avenue with other classmates after school on Fridays. There, we enjoyed his large, friendly family, good snacks, and a hockey rink! I’m not surprised he became a success in business and even more successful as a husband, father, and grandfather. Best, George Morrissey

George Morrissey

Every time Mr. Burke returned from Florida to New York/Rye. He came to greet the accounting office with a big smile, and his first sentence was. Hello, I'm here to tell you that I've already spoken with the manager, and you have the rest of the day off. We are going to miss you very much, Mr. Burke.

Ramona Urena-Lanza- The Apawamis Club

It’s not a specific memory but it’s the feeling of home I had whenever I went over to Courtney’s house for play dates in elementary school through high school. It was the fun house and mostly because of Mr. Burke. That house IS childhood to me. He always poked fun at Courtney in a way that made me laugh and made her laugh too. He would try to embarrass her in front of me by calling her “courtpuss” and I remember a couple of occasions when he was pranking one of his kids. I’ll never forget their secret room behind the coat closet that was filled with beanie babies and other stuff. I wish my memory was better. The Burke household was a magical vortex and Mr. Burke was the magician. You will be so missed and your magic will live on in our memories.

Lucy Rooney

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